Relationship Storms

By Rainbow Abegg

Storms have dynamics. There are certain steps to storms. When there is a center of low pressure then add to the mix high pressure like an envelope around it. Opposing forces that are not working together yet they are affecting each other in a dramatic way.

To know yourself well enough is the basic formula for relationship success. Most of us have been indoctrinated by others and systems as children so much of how we react to life is the beliefs that were given to us, not our own discoveries. To become self aware is personal empowerment and to question the low pressure that sits in the center.

What is your low pressure center? Do you ‘pop’ if you are overworked? Overwhelmed? Over indulgent? Is your low pressure center from stressors that you believe are not optional and they control your life? Many of my clients live by a list of yeah buts. They tell me what is wrong in life and when we explore options they are stopped by their own lack of infinite possibilities. Their low pressure center does not allow them to think outside the box and their solutions are very limited.

Relationship storms start within you. We participate in the storms because our low low pressure center is activated.

Ask yourself: What is going on inside of me that is causing this upset. What do I believe?

High pressure wrapped around the low pressure created a dynamic. High pressure created the winds and storm clouds that build and spin things out of control. If low pressure is inside let’s consider that high pressure is outside forces: your job, your finances, your home, your pets, kids, dating, or a million other aspects of life. Outside forces will also not feel optional and all that black and white thinking creates more pressure.

Relationship storms start with you on the inside and brew to the outside. To become self aware and to be fully responsible is a great task and one worth fighting for.

Ask yourself: What is going on outside of me that is taking my power and leaving me vulnerable and afraid? What do I believe about the outside sources?

If you are the center of the storm for your own world and the low pressure and high pressure are things within your field of understanding then you have power to show up differently in all relationships. Storms included.

Your body will not lie. My suggestion to first change any relationship storm is to feel what lies in the core of your own being. Do not be afraid of what you find. You may choose to do nothing. It is not a call to action once you are willing to gain information. I teach people how to use their inspiration to observe, gain insight, and to take action when it is aligned which can thwart storms from building and can build past the low’s and the high’s. It is personally empowering to no longer be a victim to the flow of that which is beyond your own control.

Find the eye of your storm. Feel it and ask the above questions. This is the first step to weather any stormy relationship and build a better way forward for yourself.

As always if your safety is jeopardized then get help and remember safety first, questions second. A better life and more solid relationship are just ahead. First, check the low and the high and ask what is in the center.

Blessings,

Rainbow

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